Twenty years ago, just after the stroke of midnight on April 1, the mayor of Amsterdam married four couples in city hall as the Netherlands became the first country with legalized same-sex marriages.
“There are two reasons to rejoice,” Amsterdam Mayor Job Cohen told the newlyweds before pink champagne and pink cake were served. “You are celebrating your marriage, and you are also celebrating your right to be married.”
Same-sex marriage is legal in 29 countries. That includes most of Western Europe. Yet its spread has been uneven — Taiwan is the only country in Asia to take the step; South Africa is the only African country to do so.
Illustration: June Hsu
“If you had told me 20 years ago that today same-sex marriage would be a reality in 29 countries, I would not have believed you,” said Jessica Stern, executive director of the global LGBTQ rights group OutRight Action International.
However, she pointed out how polarized the world is regarding LGBTQ acceptance, with nearly 70 countries criminalizing same-sex relations.
“The progress has been great, no doubt, but we have a long road ahead,” Stern said.
In many countries, even outside of Asia and Africa, opposition to marriage equality remains vehement.
In Guatemala, some lawmakers have proposed a bill that would explicitly ban same-sex marriage. In Poland, Polish President Andrzej Duda was re-elected last year after a campaign depicting the LGBTQ rights movement as more harmful than communism.
Poland is among a solid bloc of Eastern European countries that have resisted same-sex marriage, while 16 countries in Western Europe have legalized it.
Switzerland is on track to become the 17th — its parliament approved legalization of same-sex marriage in December last year, but the law has not taken effect, and opponents are trying to collect enough signatures to require a referendum on whether to overturn it.
Elsewhere, same-sex marriage is legal in Canada, Costa Rica and the US; five South American countries; a majority of Mexico’s 32 states; Australia and New Zealand.
Added together, those countries are home to about 1.2 billion people, about 15 percent of the world’s population.
Legalization came in various ways: through court rulings, legislation and — in the case of Ireland — a resounding endorsement by voters in a 2015 national referendum.
Several countries in Europe — including the Czech Republic, Greece and Italy — provide civil unions for same-sex couples, but even if these arrangements offer many of the protections of marriage, many LGBTQ activists consider them a demeaning second-tier status.
Just two weeks ago, the Vatican’s orthodoxy office declared that the Catholic Church would not bless same-sex unions since God “cannot bless sin.”
In the Netherlands, there have been more than 18,000 same-sex marriages since 2001 — about 53 percent of them between two women, according to the Dutch Central Bureau of Statistics.
Each year about 400 same-sex marriages break up, the bureau said.
Amsterdam celebrated the anniversary on Thursday with an online symposium and a “rainbow walk” route along 20 sites considered important in the struggle for LGBTQ rights.
“There are still causes for concern,” the city said. “Because equal rights don’t automatically lead to everybody being treated the same.”
One of the couples married 20 years ago, Gert Kasteel and Dolf Pasker, said they had been warmly accepted by their neighbors and associates, although they are aware that anti-LGBTQ sentiment persists elsewhere.
“For most people, it is no issue anymore,” Pasker said. “Oh happy day.”
In contrast to the Netherlands, there was an 11-year gap in the US between the first legal same-sex marriages in Massachusetts in 2004 and the 2015 US Supreme Court ruling that extended legalization nationwide.
There were 513,000 married same-sex couples in the US last year, according to the Williams Institute, a think tank at the University of California, Los Angeles, School of Law that specializes in research on LGBTQ issues.
As in other countries legalizing same-sex marriage, popular support for the concept has risen steadily in the US since 2004.
Back then, 42 percent of Americans thought that same-sex marriage should be legalized, a Gallup Poll showed. By last year, that figured had reached 67 percent.
In Africa, where religious and cultural traditions often frown on homosexuality, no country appears on track to soon join South Africa in legalizing same-sex marriage.
The situation is more fluid in Asia. A same-sex partnership bill has been proposed in Thailand’s parliament.
In Japan, where some local governments recognize same-sex unions, a court last month ruled that same-sex marriage should be allowed under the constitution.
The ruling has no immediate legal effect, but activists say it could influence other court cases and boost their quest for parliamentary debate on allowing same-sex marriage.
India struck down a colonial-era law in 2018 that made gay sex punishable by up to 10 years in prison, and there are some openly gay celebrities. Same-sex marriage remains illegal; the government says gay and lesbian couples do not warrant the status of “family unit.”
As the marriage equality movement took shape in Europe and the Americas over the past 20 years, opponents worldwide offered some basic counterarguments.
One common warning related to religious freedom, with some faith leaders predicting repercussions for religions that disapprove of same-sex relationships.
For the most part, faiths in the same-sex marriage countries have been able to maintain their own rites of marriage.
There have been some highly publicized legal cases, such as one that reached the US Supreme Court involving a conservative Christian baker who refused to make a wedding cake for a gay couple.
Another argument was that legalizing same-sex marriage would undermine the institution of marriage itself.
Evan Wolfson, a lawyer who helped orchestrate the US marriage equality movement as head of the advocacy group Freedom to Marry, assessed this argument in an article in the European Human Rights Law Review.
“The history of marriage is a history of change and expanding inclusion... The sky has not fallen when marriage has embraced same-sex couples,” he wrote. “There is enough marriage to share.”
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