Nguyen Thi Leu of Vietnam finally bid farewell to Taiwan on Saturday, which she had called home. During her four-month stay, she said her beautiful dream of a better life in a new country became a nightmare, as her new home turned into hell.
"I'd never want to come back again," she said.
Nguyen, 21, was handpicked by her Taiwanese husband, who is 13 years her senior, at a bride camp in Ho Chi Minh City in May. Three days later, he gave her family NT$5,000 (US$150) as a gift for the wedding.
While Nguyen thought she was about to embark for a new and better life in a foreign land, she quickly learned that things were not what she had expected.
Just a few days after her wedding, Nguyen found out that her husband was already married with three children, and that his wife was living above their apartment in a building in Wuku, Taipei County. Nguyen said her husband told her that he was divorced from his first wife.
During the four-month marriage, Nguyen said she was physically and verbally abused by her husband, the other wife and the wife's family.
Although Nguyen personally did not wish to file for a divorce, she said she was tricked into signing divorce papers because she could not read Chinese and spoke little of the language.
"I still love him. He is, after all, my husband," Nguyen said.
Sitting at a McDonald's on Chungshan North Road in Taipei City's Shihlin District, Nguyen said that her four-month marriage has changed her life for good.
"I regret that I married a Taiwanese and I don't think I'll ever get married again," said Nguyen, who was still wearing her gold wedding band.
The second child and the first daughter of a family of six, Nguyen was recruited by the bride camp in Ho Chi Minh City, which promised her family that it would find her a rich husband from either Taiwan or South Korea.
Nguyen's parents, who eke out a meager living by fishing, encouraged her to go to the bride camp because it seemed the only way to get Nguyen -- an elementary school drop-out -- out of poverty.
"I didn't want to go because if I did, I'd have to break up with my boyfriend," she said, wiping her tears.
"I eventually ended up going because I had to help my family pay off its debts."
Nguyen's family had borrowed US$1,000 from loan sharks when she was 15 so that she could have surgery on her intestines. The mounting interest on the loan over the last five years had only exacerbated the family's economic difficulties.
Nguyen said there were about 10 women at the bridal camp while she was there. Food and accommodation were provided free of charge, with the husbands reimbursing the camp for their brides' expenses.
Nguyen's husband paid NT$8,500 to marry Nguyen, including the NT$5,000 that went to her family.
After six months of waiting, Nguyen met her husband. However, the four-month marriage was one nightmare after another.
"His [other] wife did everything to pick fights with me. When she was really upset with me, she would use scissors to cut my clothes," Nguyen said.
In addition to her husband's three children, Nguyen said she also had to take care of her husband's sister-in-law's three children.
Nguyen said she was badly beaten by her husband when she confronted him about tricking her into signing the divorce papers.
"They held me by the hands so he would be easily able to hit me," she said, referring to her husband's wife and his mother-in-law.
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