Fed up of swiping left or right on dating apps, young London singles are returning to a classic British way of meeting people — the pub — with a modern twist: a PowerPoint presentation by a close friend pitching them as dating material.
Putting together a slide deck is second nature for many younger millennials and older Gen Zers. Now, they are using that skill to enhance their friends’ love lives, just as dating apps are losing their appeal.
“I hate the swiping,” said Annie, 27, adding that she was keen to see if her friend’s two-minute pitch at a Date My Mate event could land her a boyfriend — or at least a first date.
Photo: Reuters
Organizers said that all 150 tickets for the event, held at a north London pub, were sold in less than five minutes.
They are planning to roll out more, aiming for one a week across the country.
Dating apps are fading in popularity in the UK, with usage across the 10 biggest platforms falling 16 percent between 2023 and 2024, according to Global Dating Insights.
Polling showed that nearly half of users have had negative experiences on apps such as Tinder and Hinge.
At the event, friends crowded around tables with glasses of wine, wearing “Date” or “Mate” stickers, as presenters clicked through slides of flattering holiday photographs and fun facts.
“A bit more about Lauren. She’s 30. She’s a structural engineer, so even though she will stop walls from falling down, she’ll always be there to support you,” one friend said. “Interesting fact, she’s just about to submit her sexy fantasy romance book to publishers.”
Having seen similar events in Australia and the US on social media, Emily Churchill, head of marketing at wine company Nice who helped arrange the event, said she knew she had to bring the concept to London.
“It’s just so much fun,” Churchill said, adding that it gave coupled-up friends a way to help their single mates find love and escape “horrible dating stories.”
Those hunting for a match said it was easier for a friend to sell their best qualities — and poke fun at their flaws — with humor and honesty.
“It’s quite retro. It’s a vintage way of meeting people,” said Jonny, 28, a journalist, joking about how he tried to steer his own presentation.
His friend Patrick said the preparation involved “hundreds of photos over WhatsApp, hundreds, and him being incredibly specific about the ones that make him look good.”
Laughing about whether the friendship would survive the pitch, Patrick said he was confident the slides were good enough to lead to a wedding some day.
PHISHING: The con might appear convincing, as the scam e-mails can coincide with genuine messages from Apple saying you have run out of storage For a while you have been getting messages from Apple saying “your iCloud storage is full.” They say you have exceeded your storage plan, so documents are no longer being backed up, and photos you take are not being uploaded. You have been resisting Apple’s efforts to get you to pay a minimum of £0.99 (US$1.33) a month for more storage, but it seems that you cannot keep putting off the inevitable: You have received an e-mail which says your iCloud account has been blocked, and your photos and videos would be deleted very soon. To keep them you need
The Israeli military has demolished entire villages as part of its invasion of south Lebanon, rigging homes with explosives and razing them to the ground in massive remote detonations. The Guardian reviewed three videos posted by the Israeli military and on social media, which showed Israel carrying out mass detonations in the villages of Taybeh, Naqoura and Deir Seryan along the Israel-Lebanon border. Lebanese media has reported more mass detonations in other border villages, but satellite imagery was not readily available to verify these claims. The demolitions came after Israeli Minister of Defense Israel Katz called for the destruction of
A US YouTuber who caused outrage for filming himself kissing a statue commemorating Korean wartime sex slaves has been sentenced to six months in prison, a court in Seoul said yesterday. Johnny Somali, 25, gained notoriety several years ago for recording himself doing a series of provocative stunts in South Korea and Japan, and streaming them on platforms such as YouTube and Twitch. South Korean authorities indicted Somali — whose real name is Ramsey Khalid Ismael — in 2024 on public order violations and obstruction of business, and banned him from leaving the country. “The court has sentenced him to six months in
The death toll from a shooting in western Afghanistan rose to 11 on Saturday, after gunmen targeted civilians at a picnic spot in Herat, the provincial authority said. Bullet marks were visible on a wall of the Sayed Mohammad Agha Shia shrine, while bloodstains marked a blanket abandoned at the scene. “Eleven people have been recorded dead and eight others wounded from Friday’s incident, with the condition of two of the wounded reported as critical,” Herat’s information office said in a statement. The update raises a toll of seven killed provided on Friday by the Afghan Ministry of Interior Affairs