Drawing from his own experiences as a gay man, Taiwanese-American filmmaker Barney Cheng (鄭伯昱) writes, directs and stars in Baby Steps (滿月酒), a comedy-drama about a gay couple searching for a surrogate to have their baby. While the movie offers a much-needed cross-cultural examination of issues surrounding the gay family, Cheng’s filmmaking effort is merely passable.
One of the few things he does right is casting veteran actress Gua Ah-leh (歸亞蕾) as Mrs Lee, a mother struggling to come to terms with her son’s sexuality and his non-traditional family. Cheng himself plays Danny, a Taiwanese-American who longs to start a family with his partner Tate (Michael Adam Hamilton) in West Hollywood, Los Angeles.
The couple’s journey is anything but easy. Danny tries out different agencies in a vain attempt to find an appropriate surrogate, and adding to the stress is Mrs Lee, who, after learning about her son’s plan, flies to Los Angeles from her home in Taipei to make sure that everything goes well so that she can have the perfect grandchild she always wanted.
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Conflicts between mother and son inevitably erupt, as Mrs Lee refuses to accept her son for who he is, and always seems uneasy when Danny and Tate are together. Years after Danny came out, Mrs Lee still remains silent about her son’s sexuality in front of friends and relatives.
The journey to find a surrogate takes the trio to Mumbai, Bangkok and Taipei. Frustrated, Danny eventually turns to Mrs Lee’s Indonesian housekeeper Mickey — played by Love Fang (莫愛芳) — to be their surrogate. Knowing that the payment would help with providing a better life for her children back home, Mickey agrees.
After the baby is born, Mrs Lee has to decide whether or not to truly embrace her son and his family.
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SCRATCHING THE SURFACE
Baby Steps is supported by strong talents on the production side. Besides the UK’s Stephen Israel, who is best known for the comedy-drama Swimming with Sharks, Taiwan’s Hsu Li-kong (徐立功) is also on board. Hsu is known for producing Ang Lee’s (李安) trilogy films, including The Wedding Banquet (囍宴, 1993) and Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon (臥虎藏龍, 2000).
Cheng’s film brings to mind The Wedding Banquet, specially since Gua also plays the mother role in the drama about a gay Taiwanese-American man who marries a woman to please his parents.
More than 20 years later, the issues tackled by filmmakers are no longer that of coming out or sexual identity — and Baby Steps aptly reflects this progress through focusing on non-traditional families. Yet, unlike Lee’s heartfelt analysis, Cheng’s dealing with patriarchal structures remain shallow, only feebly delivered by Mrs Lee’s eagerness to have an heir to carry on the family lineage.
What stays the same is Gua’s composed performance, and her ability to make an un-likable character lovable.
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