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FEATURE: Pakistani village gives girls sex education

Reuters, JOHI, Pakistan

Teachers display a card with an illustration depicting a girl going through a medical checkup by a doctor, as they describe ways to counter sexual harassment, during a class in Shadabad Girls Elementary School in Pir Mashaikh village in Johi, Pakistan, on Feb. 12.

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In neat rows, the Pakistani girls in white headscarves listened carefully as the teacher described the changes in their bodies. When the teacher asked what they should do if a stranger touched them, the class erupted.

“Scream,” one called out, while another suggested “bite” and a third said: “Scratch really hard with your nails.”

Sex education is common in Western schools, but these groundbreaking lessons are taking place in deeply conservative Pakistan, a Muslim nation of 180 million people.

Publicly talking about sex in Pakistan is taboo and can even be a death sentence. Parents have slit their daughters’ throats or doused them in acid for crimes as innocuous as dancing at a wedding or looking out the window.

Almost nowhere in Pakistan does an institute offer any kind of organized sex education and it has even been banned in some places.

Yet teachers working in the village of Johi in poverty-stricken Sindh Province say that most families there support their sex education project.

About 700 girls are enrolled in eight local schools run by the Village Shadabad Organization.

Their sex education lessons start at age eight and cover changes in their bodies, what their rights are and how to protect themselves.

“We cannot close our eyes,” organization head Akbar Lashari said. “It’s a topic people don’t want to talk about, but it’s fact of our life.”

Lashari said that most of the girls in the villages used to hit puberty without realizing that they would begin to menstruate, or got married without understanding the mechanics of sex.

The lessons even teach the girls about marital rape — a revolutionary idea in Pakistan, where forcing a spouse to have sex is not a crime.

“We tell them their husband can’t have sex with them if they are not willing,” Lashari said.

The lessons are an addition to regular classes and parents are informed of them before they enroll their daughters in the schools.

No parent has yet objected and the school has faced no opposition, Lashari said.

The eight schools received sponsorship from BHP Billiton, an Australian company that operates a nearby gas plant, but Lashari said that sex education was the villagers’ own idea.

Teacher Sarah Baloch, whose yellow shalwar khameez brightens up the dusty school yard, said she hoped to help girls understand what growing up meant.

“When girls start menstruating they think it is shameful and don’t tell their parents, and think they have fallen sick,” she said.

Baloch teaches at a tiny school of three brick classrooms where a fourth class is held outside because there are so many girls.

Three girls cram into each seat made for two, listening attentively to Baloch.

One flashcard shows a girl stopping an old man from touching her leg. Other cards encourage girls to tell their parents or friends if someone is stalking them.

The girls are shy, but the lessons have sunk in.

“My body is only mine and only I have the rights on it. If someone touches my private parts I’ll bite or slap him in the face,” 10-year-old Uzma Panhwar said as she blushed defiantly.

The lessons also cover marriage.

“Our teacher has told us everything that we’ll have to do when we get married. Now we’ve learned what we should do and what not,” Sajida Baloch, 16, said while staring at the ground.

Some of Pakistan’s most prominent schools, including the prestigious Beaconhouse School System, have been considering the type of sex education practiced in Johi.

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