he two young single women, attractive and confident, were sitting at the bar of a popular Washington after-hours spot when they were asked how a relatively quick do-it-yourself HIV test might affect their dating life.
One of them, Julie Powers, 23, laughed.
"I would definitely make someone take it," she said, "hopefully before the sex."
And she would not be embarrassed, she said, to insist that a man submit to the test.
"I really think we've got what they want. And if they want it, they can have it on our terms," she explained.
Her friend, Victoria Maulhardt, 25, nodded and added, "Especially if you're getting serious with someone."
Their comments were not idle speculation: A rapid at-home HIV test could be available on pharmacy shelves within the next year or so. Encouraged by a federal drug advisory committee last month, OraSure Technologies in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, is expected to apply to the US Food and Drug Administration soon for permission to start selling its HIV test over the counter. Now it's available only in clinics.
Taking the test involves a simple swab of the gums. Results appear within 20 minutes.
And if the results are negative, certain inhibitions may disappear.
"I think there would be a lot more unprotected sex if there was a 20-minute test that people could take," said Michael Mathews, 40.
Mathews was sitting in another Washington nightspot, this one with frosted windows and a clientele that was almost uniformly male.
"We're all sick of hearing about condoms and prevention and safe sex," Mathews said.
If a test could allow gay men to skip such prevention efforts, many would, he said.
Ken Deckinger, co-founder and chief executive of the dating service HurryDate, said that an easily available AIDS test could quickly reassure a dater of a prospective partner's health, allowing a couple to jump into bed faster than they might have before.
The test, he wrote in an e-mail exchange, will "speed up the natural relationship evolution process."
"This, of course, will most likely lead to more casual encounters," he wrote.
Helen Friedman, a clinical psychologist in private practice in St. Louis, Missouri, said she could envision daters "bonding over this and saying, `Let's take this test together,'" and then, safely reassured, going from there.
The test is part of a growing stable of medical products that people can use at home to address their sexual behavior; for example, self-administered pregnancy tests and the morning-after pill.
The HIV test also addresses an issue that more and more singles face: knowing next to nothing about their next date. The popularity of Internet dating and group set-ups has led more and more singles to participate in blind dates, no references included.
But while technology has helped foster the trend, it is also helping singles cope with it. Google can provide screenfuls of information about a prospective match. Other Web sites offer criminal background checks and lists of real estate holdings. So perhaps it's no surprise that coming soon to a drug store near you is a quick way to tell if a would-be Mr. or Ms. Right has an infection that could kill.
And perhaps soon to fade from the popular imagination will be scenes like the one from Sex and the City in which the sexually ravenous Samantha is asked by a prospective partner to get tested for HIV (she becomes so nervous, she passes out at the clinic).
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