Happily for Yoko Sakamoto, she didn’t have to argue with her husband — also a Sakamoto — about whose last name they would use when they got married.
Not that the 47-year-old civil rights activist would have had much of an option: In Japan, the law requires only one surname per family — customarily the man’s.
“One’s last name is a key part of one’s self-identity,” Sakamoto said. “It’s wrong that any of us by law have to change surnames that we’ve used all our lives, and it is always the women who put up with the burden.”
The Democrats promised a progressive agenda when they formed a government, ending 55 years of nearly unbroken conservative rule.
The party began working on two bills: one that would allow married couples to keep separate surnames and another that would permit Korean permanent residents in the country to vote in local elections.
However, preparations for both bills have stalled.
Conservative politicians accuse the Democrats of pushing a radical agenda that would wreck Japanese family traditions and even weaken its national security by granting the vote to hundreds of thousands of ethnic Koreans and Taiwanese — without Japanese citizenship — and possibly other nationals too.
Such changes “would destroy the country,” said Sadakazu Tanigaki, leader of the former ruling Liberal Democratic Party, which despite its name is conservative.
While the debate over possible tax increases to tackle Japan’s burgeoning deficit has dominated the campaign for this weekend’s election, these secondary issues could also sway some voters, and a poor showing at the polls could make it hard for the Democrats to move ahead on either bill.
Japan is the only G8 nation that requires married couples to have the same family name. Asian neighbors such as China and South Korea also allow married women to have different surnames than their husbands.
A growing number of Japanese women, including those who have advanced in corporate and academic ranks, want the same right. Many already use their maiden names as aliases at work.
“The Democrats’ rule could be our tiny window of opportunity,” said Sakamoto, co-leader of the activist group mNet, which supports changes to Japan’s civil code. “The question is whether we can tolerate diversity and create a society that equally treats people with different lifestyles and nationality, including married couples with different surnames and foreign residents.”
However, that window may already be closing.
Strong opposition from the ruling party’s tiny coalition partner, the People’s New Party, has stalled moves to submit the bills in parliament and the Democrats have quietly removed them from their list of campaign promises. The smaller party claims that allowing women to retain their maiden names could undermine family unity and even cause more divorces.
“I don’t understand the mentality of couples who marry to be together but prefer separate surnames,” said Shizuka Kamei, leader of the People’s New Party. “Do we want to see door signs showing various surnames written on them at each home?”
Japanese Justice Minister Keiko Chiba, however, said she still plans to submit the already-drafted maiden names bill for parliamentary debate later this year.
The current system “often one-sidedly imposes burdens on women, inconveniences their social activities, or causes the loss of their identity,” Chiba said. “I must say it poses a problem with the fundamental equality of men and women.”
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