Sitting in an airplane en route from Warsaw to Taipei, Jessica Kao (
A diplomat, Kao has lived away from her husband for the last four years. After working at MOFA for five years, Kao, 36, was transferred to embassies or missions abroad, as is the case for all MOFA officials.
In order to spend more time with her family, Kao filed a request for a job in Taiwan for two years.
Because of her fluency in Russian, in 2001 Kao was posted to Warsaw -- two months after getting married.
Ever since she passed the national special examination for diplomats in 1996, Kao had been prepared for the day when she would have to leave home behind and be deployed in far-away missions.
MOFA regulations stipulate that officials working in the ministry must work in foreign embassies or missions after serving in Taiwan for three to five years. They have to serve abroad for at least six years and then wait for the next transfer.
"It is quite a challenge for women who are determined to become career diplomats," Kao said. "But I have no regrets because I love my job."
The instability attendant to this lifestyle is demanding on all diplomats, but even more so on female ones.
"As far as I know, many female diplomats have a hard time juggling their marriage and work," said Gloria Chen (
Chen said some female colleagues have chosen to quit their jobs, others have remained single for a long time and some, unfortunately, have gotten divorced.
But she said she views her life as a career diplomat with great optimism.
"As long as communication with your partner is good, you can avoid unfortunate developments," she said, adding that in some rare cases the partners of female diplomats would follow them abroad.
From a total of 973 officials working at MOFA, only 209 of them are women, an underrepresentation resulting from old regulations.
Before 1996, the ministry had a restriction on the number of women admitted to the national examination.
Only five were admitted per year, said Phoebe Yeh (
"A few decades ago, female diplomats were regarded as anomalies," she said.
Yeh was not spared having to balance career and family, but with perseverance and patience she managed to overcome those difficulties and found her niche.
Although an increasing number of outstanding female politicians have announced their intention to campaign for their countries' top position -- including Hillary Clinton in the US, Segolene Royal in France and, at home, Vice President Annette Lu (
On Tuesday, German Chancellor Angela Merkel, Germany's first woman to hold the position, acknowledged that her country "had a long way to go before women had a fair shot in politics and business."
Yeh agrees.
"Taiwan has made great progress on gender equality in all fields, including government. But that is not enough," she said.



