Mon, Aug 15, 2005 - Page 2 News List

Adoption becoming more open

TRANSPARENCY Child welfare advocates want more people to consider adoption, and hope new measures to open up the process and break traditional views will help

By Mo Yan-chih  /  STAFF REPORTER

Child welfare groups with adoption services also relaxed some restrictions to encourage child adoption. In the past, adoption was only open to married couples, even though no laws have ever banned single people from adopting a child.

Although the government and civil groups are pushing for increased domestic adoption, the practice is in decline in Taiwan. According to the Child Welfare League Foundation, approximately 5,000 children a year are abandoned in Taiwan, and only about 10 percent of those find an adoptive family in Taiwan.

"In addition to the traditional misconception that child adoption is a shameful secret, the inadequate welfare system and medical system scares many people away from having kids, let alone asking them to adopt abandoned children, many of whom have physical defects," said Abby Chen (陳雅惠), a coordinator at the foundation.

Netherlands

In the Netherlands, for example, children's medical and even educational expenses are covered. The child welfare system encourages many Dutch to have a baby or even adopt one. Over the last 15 years, the Dutch have adopted more Taiwanese children than any other country, embracing 663 abandoned children from Taiwan.

In the US, a Child Citizenship Act Project launched last year ensures that citizenship certificates are delivered to children adopted from overseas within 45 days of their arrival in the country.

Government policies may present obstacles to improving the adoption process, child welfare advocates said, but traditional ideas and negative misconceptions about adoption, are what really hurt adoption in Taiwan.

"Taiwanese families view children as precious possessions and a means to carry on the family name. Therefore, adoptive parents in Taiwan are often people who suffer from infertility," Chen said.

The traditional idea, which sees blood relations as defining a family, also keeps many from adopting children, and makes it hard for parents to fully embrace adopted children as their own kids.

For this reason, the foundation invited Taiwan-born adoptees and their Dutch parents for a visit to promote the concept that adoption is all about loving and accepting someone who is not a blood relative as your own child.

Changing a long-standing concept is not easy, and it might be hard to understand where the unconditional love came from when Rijnbeek and his wife decided to adopt a child with special needs. Yentl was abandoned by her birth parents because they couldn't afford to treat a tumor in her left eye. After going to Netherlands, Yentl had several surgeries, but doctors were unable to save her eye. Her physical defect, however, has never been a problem for Rijnbeek.

"A special-needs child is someone who needs you more. You have more time with your child and can develop a more close relationship," he said.

Fears

Asked if he ever worried that Yentl would leave him one day to find her birth parents, a nightmare that scares many Taiwanese away from adoption, Rijinbeek said that he respects her right to know where she came from, and will love her no matter what she chooses to do.

Already on her second visit to Taiwan, Yentl said that she knew from the beginning about the adoption, and her parents bought her books about Taiwan to satisfy her curiousity about her cultural roots.

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