Chances are, Tim Hasselbeck will never find out what happened to Simone.
The young girl, perhaps 3 years old, clung to him the entire week he spent in Riverton City, Jamaica, a Kingston slum built around a trash dump. The connection was such that the Simone's teenage mother, seeing no future in such an ugly place, told Hasselbeck to take her daughter with him when he went home to America.
"I guess you never want to sound like you're soft or anything," Hasselbeck said. "But for me, yeah, emotionally, that was tough for me to see that. For a woman to say, `Take my daughter.' That was hard for me."
Of course, Hasselbeck couldn't accept. He was an American football player from Boston College trying to do some good during spring break, like his brother Matt before him, working with orphans and leprosy victims with a group called the Ignacio Volunteers.
Nearly six years later, in the cozy training facility of the Washington Redskins, the memories of that week stir Hasselbeck's emotions more than any talk of his first NFL victory -- just three weeks ago -- or the futility of his 0.0 quarterback rating in a game against Dallas.
"Kids are running around with no schools, no homes, no electricity, no place to go to the bathroom," Hasselbeck said. "When I was 3 years old, I was wondering what game we were going to play outside. If it was cold, I was going to come inside and have some hot chocolate."
And, as for Simone, one of many kids who turned Hasselbeck into a human jungle gym every day, he can only hope she turned out for the best.
"They live on a dump. They don't have an address," Hasselbeck said. "If there was any kind of way to find out, I'd love to know that things are a little bit better. It's sad thinking about."
This has been a special year for the Hasselbeck family. After years of pink slips from various NFL teams, Tim latched on with the Redskins. He is finishing the season as the starter because of an injury to Patrick Ramsey and appears to have earned himself a roster spot for next season.
Meanwhile, Matt is in Seattle, leading his team in the playoff chase in his third year as the starter and as the Seahawks' nominee for the Walter Payton NFL Man of the Year for community service. Younger brother Nathanael is a red-shirt sophomore at Boston College.
Tim's wife, Elisabeth, has parleyed her success as a "Survivor" contestant into a co-host chair on the morning television show ``The View,'' getting the job just days before Tim got his first substantial playing time in the NFL.
Watching it all unfold is father Don Hasselbeck, who spent nine years as an NFL tight end.
"Everyone says `Congratulations.' The funniest part is I guess I'm excited for them, but I think Matthew is probably more excited about it than anybody," Don Hasselbeck said. "Because Matthew and Tim were so close."
The Hasselbecks are an emotional bunch, and their track record is one of caring. When Matt made the same trip to Riverton City, he watched a boy fall into a hole being used for a bathroom. The boy died, and one theory is that his assistance in the rescue effort is what gave Matt hepatitis, putting him in the hospital and causing him to miss spring practice the year he was vying for a starting job at BC.
After that experience, his parents couldn't believe it when Tim wanted to follow his brother's footsteps two years later. Yet they all agree: The boys came back as different people, and for the better.
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