I have seen dinner guests recoil from the offer of a silver fork, and resist when said fork was later dispatched to the dishwasher. But I refuse to be scared of using real silverware: Silver is strong stuff, and even when slightly tarnished, I like its warmth and heft.
But I'm in a shrinking minority: The number of American couples who register for sterling goes down every year, according to Caroline Baize of the Christofle silver company. "More couples want to save their money for a nice honeymoon," she said. Many of them may have already found themselves in custody of sterling silver that they consider "too good" for regular use.
But Feeding Desire: Design and the Tools of the Table, an exhibition of Western eating utensils opening May 5 at the Cooper-Hewitt National Design Museum in New York, may inspire people to use the good stuff.
In the paneled dining room of the old Andrew Carnegie mansion that houses the museum, visitors will gaze upon Renaissance-era utensils whose carved ivory handles are tiny religious masterpieces, Napoleon's traveling silverware, and modern upstart utensils like the spork and its relatives.
These items might sound trivial, even boring -- the culinary equivalent of a museum show dedicated to old blankets or early toothbrush designs.
But passionate defenders of this declining art form see the show as a chance to revive the stature it once had at the table.
"These are the tools that turned eating into dining" said Sarah Coffin, a curator at the museum who has been researching the subject for almost 30 years. "Today we seem to be moving in the other direction, toward everyone eating in their cars with their hands, so it's pure pleasure to spend time with these objects and realize how useful they are."
"The fork, knife and spoon are clearly perfect forms," Coffin said as she pulled out drawer after drawer of them, all polished and ready for their moment in the spotlight. "How many things we use today have been virtually unchanged for the last 400 years?"
Western utensils are relative latecomers: while the Romans were sticking shells onto sticks to make early spoons, the Chinese had already refined the use of chopsticks over thousands of years.
In the West, knives were the first tool to come to the table, as personal weapons that were also used for cutting and spearing meat. In the 1600s, the pointed tip of the knife was rounded by decree of King Louis XIII of France. Some historians say this was to prevent violence at the dinner table, others, to prevent unsightly tooth-picking by courtiers, a particular irritant to Cardinal Richelieu. If the knife was associated with the hunt and the manly act of stabbing, the spoon was maternal, used for soft gruels or to feed babies and the elderly.
"Spoons were originally round, but the advent of purees and smooth soups made a more oval shape more practical, to let you tip the liquid directly into the front of your mouth," Coffin said.
The fork, which came much later, brought with it associations of the Devil's pitchfork and the perceived effeminacy of the East; it was an 11th-century Byzantine princess who made its first recorded use in Europe, as a golden tool to prevent her fingers from getting sticky from candied fruit. Medieval Christians were frequently banned from using forks by the Church, and even Louis XIV, a monarch not known for his austerity, refused to eat with a fork because of its associations with his effete predecessor Henri III.
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