She may have modeled for Ralph Lauren and appeared on the cover of Vogue Italia, but when a photo of Robyn Lawley wearing a corset appeared on Facebook the responses were far from complimentary. “Pig,” “hefty” and “too fat” were some of the ways in which commenters described the 24-year-old. Her crime? Her thighs were touching. Lawley had failed to achieve a “thigh gap.”
The model, who has her own swimwear line and has won numerous awards for her work, responded vehemently below the line: “You sit behind a computer screen objectifying my body, judging it and insulting it, without even knowing it.”
She also went on to pen a thoughtful rallying cry for the Daily Beast last week against those who attacked her, saying their words were “just another tool of manipulation that other people are trying to use to keep me from loving my body.”
The response to her article was electric and Lawley was invited to speak about thigh-gap prejudice on NBC’s Today show.
In a careful and downbeat tone, she explained: “It’s basically when your upper middle thighs do not touch when you’re standing with your legs together.”
The Urban Dictionary Web site describes it in no uncertain terms as “the gap between a woman’s thighs directly below the vagina, often diamond shaped when the thighs are together.”
The thigh gap is not a new concept to Lawley, who at 1.88m and 76kg is classified as a “plus-size” model, and who remembers learning about it at age 12. However, the growth of Instagram and other social media has allowed the concept of a thigh gap to enter the public consciousness and become an alarming and exasperating, new trend among girls and women.
A typical example is a Twitter account devoted solely to Cara Delevingne’s thigh gap, which the model initially described as “pretty funny,” but also “quite crazy.”
Selfies commonly show one part of a person’s anatomy, a way of compartmentalizing body sections to show them in the best light, and the thigh gap is particularly popular. What was once a standard barometer of thinness among models is now apparently sought after by a wider public.
The thigh gap has its own hashtag on Twitter, under which users post pictures of non-touching thighs for inspiration and numerous dedicated blogs. The images posted mirror the ubiquitous images of young, slim models and pop stars in shorts, often at festivals such as Glastonbury, in southwest England, or Coachella, in California, that have flooded the mainstream media in recent years, bringing with them the idea that skinniness, glamor and fun are intertwined.
There is even a “how to” page on the Internet, although worshipers of thin may be disappointed to find that the first step is to “understand that a thigh gap is not physically possible for most people.”
Naomi Shimada began modeling at 13, but had to quit the industry when her weight changed.
“I was what they call a straight-size model — a size 6 — when I started, which is normal for a very young girl,” she said.
“But as I got older my body didn’t stay like that, because, guess what, that doesn’t happen to people! So I took a break and went back in as a size 14 and now work as a plus-size model,” she said.
Shimada is unequivocal about where the obsession with the thigh gap comes from.
“It’s not a new trend: It’s been around for years. It comes partly from a fashion industry that won’t acknowledge that there are different ways a woman should look, and it comes from the pro-anorexic community. It’s a path to an eating disorder,” she said.